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An Indian girl

India attained freedom long back but do an Indian girl has freedom to dream on a career she loves ???
In 95% of Indian families parents tell to her daughter,
See my dear,
-you have to mold yourself to fit in your husband's family.
-You should never raise your voice against your in-laws.
- Give support to your husband to achieve his dreams and become a good wife.
-Lovingly raise your children and become a loving mother.

Is that all a girl has to do...?? If she wants to study after marriage should she fight a fierce battle at home?? but no one objects a boy to study after marriage.

Why should a girl leave her home while a boy need not after marriage??

Asking such questions is also offendable in this society as this is considered as the most unwanted behavior expected from a girl..!!! But why..!!!

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